Peace from the Little Things

Let’s hear it for the little things. Let’s hear it for those who take the time to make the little things lovely.

And then let us dedicate ourselves to saying thank you. Practicing not just generous tipping but also that looking your server in the eye and saying thanks, this little gift changes my life.

When people do things that make you stop and notice, stop and notice. Be appreciative.

The more appreciative you are (not smarmy, just appreciative!) the more generous and painstaking people will be with the next thing they do.

I believe that Gratitude and Generosity beget each other, beget Peace.

everydaypeacemonday47nov21

The Peace and Beauty of the Day

Every day you get up the world is in the midst of being beautiful. I’m writing that today when it’s grey and blustery… when it’s November to its very core.

Some places they’re celebrating snow… not here of course. Welcome to Snowhole PA…

I’m simply delighting in the leaves swirling and dancing in the streets. I get to go to wowrk and do things I love. And then I get to come home and be with friends and family, family, family… my birth family who are local are coming to dinner to meet my beloved family who have arrived from California. Last night I held grandchildren in my arms and two amazing women who have allowed me to call them daughters of my heart. Way to go Steve Mitchell… thanks for the great gift of Love!

The times are as turbulent as the wind. But Love is as constant as time — if we let it be so. And Peace is there for the making.

everydaypeacesunday47nov20

How Will We Fuel Peace?

It’s time to reconsider where we get our fuel.

I’ve been so caught by Van Jones’ notion that what’s in the ground is dead… and we don’t dig it up…

And we’ve clear cut this nation at least once… and that’s proven itself not a good thing.

But we have winds and we have sun… And they’re not going anywhere anytime soon…

Let’s think differently. Let’s Peace differently, shall we?

everydaypeacesaturday47nov19

Trusting in Our Devotion to Peace

We’re the ones. I don’t know if we’re the ones we’ve been waiting for, but we’re the ones we’ve got. And we aren’t waiting any longer — because people are going to need us.

Are you a refuge? Are you an ally? are you an organizer? Are you a politician? Are you a donor? Are you a good friend? Are you — am I, because these questions aren’t just for you — trustworthy?

It’s going to come down to being a good friend to the world and our country: its peoples, its land, air, and waters, its climate. What kind of world are we going to demand of ourselves? Will it be kind? Will it be just? Will it be one that acknowledges the realities of all people, not simply ourselves?

Oh, I hope so. I’ve said this forever. Now more than ever, let’s Peace. (and Peace means so much more than many think… and we remember: No Justice, No Peace.)

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The Last Leaves of Peace

Beauty has been hanging on the trees. But the stark bones of life are slowly revealing themselves. Tree branches write their story against the sky.

Some of what we’re seeing is ugly and frightening. But some of it is beautiful. It’s a long while until spring… We’re going to have to see the Beauty that is and help reveal it to the world. We’re going to have to be the Peace… both leaving and staying and coming.

And this just in — a friend just quoted Annie LaMotte: “We do not need to get it together before we show up.”

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Winter Fields of Peace

On the one hand in this picture, this is just another picture of a winter field… stark, but beautiful.

But as I look at it now, as we enter into Winter, I think of the conversations that need to be held in the dark in the months to come.

What does Peace look like — what does it need to look like in the time to come? What has grown well in these fields before? What are people hungry for? What will nurture the people? What will keep us going for the struggle ahead? What will give us delight.

As you know, I’m not a very garden-y person… but we are going to need to sow peace. and we might well need to sow food for eating… what do the fields need to be able to support this?

What will nurture our hearts so that Peace can grow there? That’s really at the base of this analogy isn’t it? And let us remember Peace is a vast, imposing and demanding thing, not something sweet and light… People, get ready…everydaypeacewednesday46nov16

 

Comfort Food Can Slow the Peace Journey

So many people I know have written stories about stress eating in times of well, stress.

There is so much to be said for comfort food. First, mmm. Second, comfort!

But there’s a lot to be said about it that reminds us that it isn’t our best friend.

Comfort food is rarely celery. Who do you know who says or writes to you, OMG, I was so depressed I ate an entire BUNCH of celery or a whole HEAD of lettuce. Nope it’s usually something carb or sugar related.

I like sugar and carbs as well as the next person… but they’re not really all that good for us in unmeasured quantities.

I’m not saying don’t do it… because times of stress are stressful. I am saying that, for me, sliding into comfort food is often a long slide toward a lot of comfort food. Like any other drug it dulls you. Thank it for its comfort… and plan a healthy meal.

Peace needs us alert and on the journey… Let’s Peace. The world needs us.

everydaypeacemonday46nov14

Peace on the Road Ahead

Well, here we go. There is quite a road ahead. There always was; now we know a bit more about it — even though there is much we don’t know, can’t know until things play out.

But what we know is that we are still expected to be decent and kind. We are still expected to shelter those who are in need of refuge. How we do that will be settled on bye and bye… and in the meantime, here we are.

Peace is still our destination. It may be farther than we thought, but hey it always takes longer than we think. Pack good food; take frequent breaks to see the scenery; and check out the beautiful scenery on the way. Aid those you encounter; accept their helping hand.

Laugh. Laugh a whole lot.

We’re in it for the long haul. Woke up this morning with my mind set on Peace. I’m not about to turn back now. If we leave now, we can stop for breakfast on the way.

everydaypeacesunday46nov13

Honoring the Dead; Demanding Peace

The dead are always with us. Those of us who knew and loved them long for them and mourn their passing. As long as we remember them they are somehow still with us… those real people, who laughed and snarked and tried and failed and loved us back. Life continues.

But there are those dead whom we must remember whom we never knew. There are those who died of poverty and neglect. To them, we can only say, we will try to do better.

There are those who died in wars. Some died valiantly, defending a cause they believed in. Some died valiantly because we asked it of them. All have served valiantly and we are not grateful enough — even when we are uncertain about war and its purpose.

Too many have died in wars. Too many veterans have had to leave their families for uncertain causes. Too many are gravely wounded in too many ways. Too few are well taken care of when they return.

And too many of us ignore the wars of the world and the victims who are not military.

Veterans day is over for the year… Remembrance must continue… and with that a heartfelt movement to bring Peace about in the world. It’s on us. We owe the dead that. We owe the living the same. Peace. The work of the world.

everydaypeacesaturday46nov12

 

The Peace of Helping Each Other Out

I find I still have high expectations of folk. I expect us all to be courteous and kind. No exceptions.

If your candidate won or didn’t, you are and your neighbor is an American.

We may have very different ideas. We can still expect respect and have it expected of us.

Those whose dreams were not realized will need some time to figure out how we fit ourselves in, what we see our work to be. Those whose hopes came true had best find out how they will be a part of the government they elected.

I am not a strategist. I don’t know what to do next, but I know this: Peace is still the unwavering goal. Kindness and respect still pave the road.

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